IT’s almost Thanksgiving. Oy vey. So I’m supposed to be making a trip to Savannah. I was like, I’m looking at air B&B’s. He was looking in Bluffton because its convenient for him. I’, like nope I don’t want to have to rent a car. Then he jumps to me driving him to work and taking his car and picking him up
NO
Enmeshment. This isn’t good at all. Not at all. The hot boy, independent guy I thought he was. His sitation is pretty fucked up. Last night he was all, “I’ve got my stuff to where I could be out of here in 15min flat if I had to.”
But why?
There is no threat.
He said he sold his condo to send his kid to college. I texted and asked how his day was and he said “Terrible” but didn’t get into it. Why is your life this way?
But, it just sounds like he’s kind of in the same position a me. Nothing to show for his life really except his kid. Failed relationship, nothing joint, lopsided relationship. He comes across as very codependent. Clingy. I never knew him to be that way.
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